So here is bitty bits of how women and men differentiate when sexuality is in conversation... well one component cause we are different on so many different levels.
Women don’t get turned on in the same way men do! Ladies are more complex creatures who need to be stimulated in multiple areas at once to become satisfied. For us, sex is just as much an emotional and psychological experience as it is a physical one.
Zone #1 – Her Brain Sometimes, Mother Nature can provide you with the mood to turn her on. This can occur in many ways, but there are two that really stick out. Experts say a woman’s biggest sex organ is her brain, and there’s truth to this statement. For ladies, lovemaking can become very boring very quickly if there is no psychology to it. You have to appeal to her mind with the right dirty talk to excite her and get her going. This talk can range from romantic to downright dirty, and there is no “one size fits all” language for women. Find out what type of dirty talk works best for her by testing the waters. Try not to come off too strong at first. This may just mess with her mood not to mention close energy in other areas.
Zone #2 – Ears Talking into her ears may turn her down, but caressing them will drive her wild! There are more than 120 acupressure points on her ears, and Chinese acupuncturists believe that stimulating this area sends sexual energy all throughout her body. Keep in mind: Earlobe can be ultra sensitive (so be gentle). You need to kiss these with care or you can massage them gently with your fingertips!
Zone #3 – Mouth & Lips A first kiss sky rockets dopamine levels in the brain, and making out with a long-term partner causes her body to release oxytocin. Both of these chemicals put her in the sexy mood and make her feel good! Women prefer soft, sensual kisses, so it’s important not to get too sloppy. It is usually best to let her take the lead. She’ll kiss you the way she wants to be kissed, which will turn her on! Pay attention! If she’s into it, a playful bite on the bottom of her lip may get her into the mood. Of course, you can try these as well.
Zone #4 – Scalp Her scalp may not be the first erogenous zone that comes to mind, but a head massage may be the one thing that pushes her over the edge. Head massages cause her organism to release oxytocin, a hormone that relaxes the body and enhances sexual pleasure. Just keep in mind that there are right and wrong ways to massage her scalp.
Therefore, you should follow these few tips: Use long, sweeping strokes with your fingertips. Be gentle if you plan on using your nails. Move up towards the base of her neck and knead the area using firm, upward strokes with your thumbs. Use this same motion on the part of the scalp just behind the ears. Keep in mind: This sweeping action is soothing but seductive and incredibly sensual at the same time. Do not underestimate its power!
why not add it into a slow soft sensual massage together.. get the idea?
enjoy sensuality, it's intimacy at its best. 💚